“ARTHUR ASHE AND THE RICHMOND ROAD”
When I was
a boy, I dreamed of being a major league baseball player. I was a smart player and fielded well, but my
hitting was so-so. When I got old enough
to face pitchers who threw curve balls, I threw in the towel – I was too afraid
of being hit by the ball. So, I thought
about tennis, since it was a non-contact sport.
We were poor, so I could not go
to the country club to practice, and there was only one public court. It was segregated, but like our baseball
fields, it was located in a black neighborhood.
I’ve often wondered what those black kids thought about us white kids coming
into their neighborhood to play on venues on which they could not set
foot. Though I liked tennis, I never
developed it much. Our son, David,
however, did – he became the #1 singles player on his high school team.
My interest
in tennis in those days made me notice Arthur Ashe, the first person of African
descent to play on the USA Davis Cup team and the first African-American to win
a Davis Cup match. In those days tennis
was a white person’s sport, and in many ways, it still is, although Venus and
Serena Williams have blown the doors open for women’s tennis. Ashe was born in Richmond, VA, in 1943, and
he became interested in tennis at age 7.
He was tutored in tennis by Ron Charity, who was the best black tennis
player in Richmond, and likely he was the best player of any color, but he was
not allowed to compete with whites in that segregated era.
Ashe’s dad and Ron Charity helped him get noticed by local
white tennis pros, who took him under their wings and opened doors for
him. He earned a tennis scholarship to
UCLA, and while there he joined the USA Davis Cup team at age 20. He later turned pro and made money – he had
majored in business at UCLA, so he knew what to do with his money.
Ashe died
in February, 1993 of pneumonia, brought on by AIDS, which he had gotten from a
blood transfusion after heart surgery in 1993.
As Black History Month rolled around in 1994, I decided to research Ashe
and preach on him. He was one of the few
athletes of his time who would take political positions. He was arrested several times in protest of
South Africa’s apartheid policies. I was
also attracted to him because he was a Presbyterian – he attended First
Presbyterian in Brooklyn, where my colleague (and former pastor at Hillside)
Paul Smith was pastor. As I began to
read about him, though, I was shocked – he was so conservative! He voted for Bush in 1988, and he was a
frequent guest at the Reagan/Bush White House.
He opposed the idea of black power, and he stood against affirmative
action as a way to do some reparations.
So, I
decided not to preach on him – he was the wrong kind of black man, not my kind
of black man. I wrestled with that. I was turning him down because he didn’t seem
black enough to me, a white man. How
could I know his struggles? How could I
judge his “blackness?” So, I decided to
preach on his life and witness, and I did it a year to the day after his
death. I discovered a remarkable passage
in his autobiography “Days of Grace,” and I want to share part of it here. He was being interviewed by a white reporter
from People Magazine about how he was coping with AIDS:
“Mr. Ashe,
I guess this must be the heaviest burden you ever had to bear, isn’t it?”
I thought for a moment, but only a moment. “No, it isn’t. It’s a burden,
all
right. But AIDS isn’t the heaviest
burden that I’ve had to bear.”
“Is there
something worse? Your heart attack?”
“You’re not
going to believe this, but being classified as black is the greatest
burden I’ve
had to bear.” She said, “You can’t mean
that.” My reply: “No
question
about it. Race has always been my
biggest burden. Having to live
as a
minority in America. Even now it continues
to feel like an extra weight
tied around
me.”
I can still
recall the surprise and perhaps even the hurt on her face. I may
even have
surprised myself, because I simply had never thought of
comparing
the two conditions before.”
I give thanks for the witness of Arthur Ashe, who overcame
so many obstacles to become one of the best players in tennis history. I also give thanks to him for being willing
to reveal the cost of being classified as “black” in a white, racist
society. And, I thank him for revealing
the continuing power of race in my life. So, with apologies to James Weldon
Johnson,
Stony the road he trod,
Bitter the shoes he shod,
Difficult to be seen as odd,
But thank God
For Arthur Ashe
For his journey to sing his own song and that of his
ancestors.
And, Arthur Ashe’s statue now has a place on Richmond’s
infamous Monument Avenue, where all the Confederate forebears can celebrate his
great achievements!
THANK YOU!! Loved reading this. Didn't know you were a tennis fan and that David was so good!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Alan - I'm a casual follower of tennis. Yes, David was pretty good, and it was always interesting to travel up to the north side country clubs with Decatur High to play some of those teams.
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