‘ON TO THE MARGINS”
The first
Christmas story in the Bible in Matthew’s Gospel begins with a seemingly dull
genealogy, but with careful reading, it produces some spectacular
insights. It is intended to tie Jesus’
line with Abraham and David, but genetically it
does not work because Joseph is not the biological father of Jesus. All the other genealogies have only men listed,
but Matthew’s includes five women. It is
extraordinary that women are in this genealogy, but these five women are not
the pillars of the faith: Tamar, Rahab,
Ruth, Bathsheba (though listed in Matthew as “the wife of Uriah”), and
Mary. Why not list Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel,
and others?
The answer
likely lies in the fact that these are all women on the margins. Tamar has to use her wits in a patriarchal
system and poses as a prostitute (Genesis 38).
Rahab is a foreigner in Jericho who assists the Hebrews in capturing the
city, and some scholars believe that she was the matron of a house of
prostitution (Joshua 2). Ruth is another
foreigner who sticks with her mother-in-law Naomi and leaves her land to return
to Naomi’s home in Bethlehem – she becomes the great-grandmother of David (Book
of Ruth). Bathsheba, not even called by
name in this genealogy, is a participant in adultery with King David, which
results in the murder of her husband Uriah (II Samuel 11-12).
As we saw
last week, Mary has been asked to go even further out to the margins of life,
as she agrees to allow herself to become pregnant by someone other than her
fiancé. She risks the death penalty, but
she says “yes.” She was already
oppressed as a woman, and by agreeing to this request from the angel Gabriel,
she has put herself in the complete mercy of her fiancé Joseph and the
male-dominated system in which she lives her life.
And now, it
is Joseph’s turn to wrestle with this situation. Matthew’s genealogy in chapter one is followed
by the story of Joseph’s crisis over Mary’s pregnancy by someone other than
him. Mary’s being pregnant before
marriage is not a big issue, but for Joseph, her being pregnant by someone
other than him is a great offense. While
it was rarely used, the death penalty is on the table for this offense
(Leviticus 20:10+). Matthew tells us
that Joseph is no longer willing to marry Mary, but he is wrestling over how to
end the engagement. The least disruptive
course would be to send her back to her father’s family in disgrace. He could also have her stoned in public as a
punishment, or he could require her to go the priest and confess and be made to
drink a bitter herb, with the hope of aborting the fetus. Matthew tells us that he has decided to spare
Mary as much public shame as possible and send her back to her father’s
house. As Mary’s pregnancy becomes more
evident, she will obviously be in public disgrace, but that is beyond Joseph’s
control.
Matthew
tells us that an angel comes to Joseph in a dream and tells him: “Don’t be
afraid.” It is the hallmark call of these
Biblical Christmas stories: don’t be dominated by fear. The angel is not identified in this story, so
we don’t know if it is Gabriel or not.
Gabriel’s appearances tend to be in public, not in private, so perhaps
this is another messenger from God. The
angel tells Joseph to listen to Mary, to listen to women. It is asking Joseph to move out form the
center of patriarchy towards the margins, where God is moving and acting. The angel asks Joseph to take Mary as his
wife and to offer her the patriarchal protection that he has as a man. The angel asks Joseph to move from the center
of patriarchy to the margins, to allow himself to give up part of his power as
a man in a male-dominated system.
In a great
surprise, Joseph also says “Yes,” and he becomes the father and protector. He takes Mary and the baby-to-be under his
male protection. He gives up some of his
status and power in order to protect this family. He moves toward the margins, and we are glad
that he did! This move is costly to
Joseph – we never him speak in the Gospel accounts; he doesn’t have a “Magnificat” like Mary
does; no visionary prophecy like Zechariah had when John the Baptizer is
born. Indeed he disappears after the
birth stories.
Joseph
gives up some of his male privilege and power when he claims Mary and
Jesus. And, perhaps he serves as a role
model for the boy Jesus. As Jesus grows
to be a man, where does he learn that stuff about giving up power and privilege,
that losing of self? It sounds like he
learned it at home, from his father Joseph and his mother Mary.
In this
Christmas season, may we dream dreams, as Joseph did. In these crazy and scary times, let us be
listening for God’s messengers to us, asking us not to afraid, asking us to
move towards the margins, asking us to follow Joseph’s path, towards love and
justice.