“DAVID STROUPE!”
Our son David Stroupe was born in Norfolk, Virginia, on a snowy evening 45 years ago on January 31, 1980. He has been a great gift to us and to so many others in this crazy world. He currently teaches science education at the University of Utah in Salt Lake City, after a long stint at Michigan State.
This year is the year of the Snake on the Chinese zodiac, and in that system, the snake symbolizes wisdom, elegance, and intuition. David is a snake guy, so this is his year. He is wise and has great intuition, but elegance is not one of his main qualities. Indeed, when he was a graduate student at the University of Washington, getting his PhD in science education, his adviser and mentor Dr. Mark Windschitl indicated that he was impressed with David’s intelligence and work habits. Dr. Windschitl told David that he would like to take David to some Congressional hearings, where he sometimes testified before Congressional committees. He told David, however, that before he would consider taking him, that David would have to get one good pair of shoes – the shoes that he had seen David wearing did not fit that category. We ended up helping pick out and pay for a “good pair of shoes.”
As I said, David became a snake guy. I’m not sure when exactly he crossed over to the world of herpetology, but he learned a lot of it in the creek in front of our house on Kirk Road in Decatur. He went to Davidson College and was a biology major there. He was an assistant in herpetology there, and I remember him calling me early in his snake career saying: “Dad, I caught a snake today, and it bit me 5 times, but don’t tell Mom!” I replied: “Well, I hope that it wasn’t a poisonous snake,” and his retort was: “Dad, I’d never pick up a poisonous snake.” But, of course he did, as I found out later.
He became known there as ‘The Snake Guy” because he was often the “go to” guy in what was then a small town – if you had snakes in your house, he would remove them for you. He also did demonstrations on reptiles and amphibians with church and school groups. In those demonstrations, it was clear that he was a natural teacher, and that is what he ended up doing.
We had a great time with him and Susan and Erin and Emma and Zoe at our 50th wedding anniversary this summer. He and Susan organized it and were the emcees for it. Of course, there was dancing, where I once again was recognized as best male dancer. At the end of the occasion, David and Susan announced that they had arranged for the City of Decatur to install a bench in Harmony Park in the Oakhurst neighborhood, where we labored and did ministry for over 30 years. The plaque for that bench is in the photograph – if you live in the area, go see it sometime! Harmony Park is located on land where Caroline and I used to lead the Easter parade after Oakhurst worship for singing and proclamation. It is also a park where we pushed the city of Decatur to establish safe space where Black youth could hang out without being harassed by the gentrifying businesses in the changing neighborhood. So, we were glad for David and Susan to work this out for this space.
David has written two books for Harvard University Press and edited others, and this year he is starting a term as editor of the journal “Science Education.” We are so proud of him, but we are most proud that he has a wide heart and a keen mind– even for snakes. These qualities make him such a great son, dad, husband, teacher, mentor, friend, and human being. So many memories, so many stories to tell, so many stories to come! We give thanks for him being in our lives! Happy Birthday, David!
Brought tears to my eyes…..A wonderful story full of love to a son.How interesting that he is a scientist….always something happening and being discovered…..y’all celebrated 50; and we celebrated 70…..wow
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Thanks, Ann, great to hear from you! I am so grateful to you for all of your and John's gifts to me and thus to my family. And, 70 years - wow!!! Peace and love, Nibs
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